Showing posts with label Bill and Pat. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Bill and Pat. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 09, 2025

Bill and Pat May 24, 2018

These days I spend a lot of time thinking about the two great loves of my life. With all the chaos going in in our country now, I often retreat into these fond memories.

Few people are a fortunate as I am. 

I still miss Bill a lot. Rarely a week goes by that I don't tear up when I see something around Casa Tipton-Kelly that brings back a fond memory of Bill. That's one reason I will never leave here alive, I love living here with my loving memories of Bill. When I leave here it will be like when Bill left here, on stretcher. Bill left unconscious on that stretcher pulled by two paramedics and put into an ambulance on a cold Wednesday night in February for the Delaware Hospice Center in Milford, Delaware. As I followed him in my car I knew he would never be returning to his home here alive. That night will always be one of the saddest of my life, only surprised by the telephone call I received at 1:20 AM three days later (Saturday) from a nurse at Delaware Hospice telling me "I'm sorry to inform you that Mr. Kelly has passed away." I will never forget that phone call for the rest of my life. Even though I was expecting this call, I was still stunned and in shock. After hearing those words my life changed forever. But life goes on. 

Bill and Pat May 27, 2018

Pat is in the last step of us getting permission to get married. He has to submit his paperwork to the American Consulate in Montreal, Canada. Once the consulate reviews that paperwork they will interview him and hopefully give the go ahead for him for us to get married. Then this whole new chapter starts in my life. The last chapter.


Pat and Bill May 22, 2017



Monday, November 25, 2024

Ten Years Like That!

 

Bill and Pat December 7, 2023

Scrolling through my photo files this morning I came across these two pictures taken of the two most important meant in my life, Bill and Pat.


Bill and Pat November 13, 2013


The first pictures was taken November 13, 2013. I had met Pat for the first time in August of 2013.


Bill and Pat December 7, 2023

The last picture was taken December 7, 2023, a few months before Bill died on February 22, 2024. 

This was about the time Bill called me aside and said "Something has changed. I don't think I'm going to be around much longer. I want you to know that I want you and Pat to be very happy together."

That was Bill, selfless to the end. 

Thanksgiving is this week. Bill and I never did much on Thanksgiving which was our choice. But still the same I will miss him terribly this Thanksgiving. 

Looking at these pictures of Bill and Pat I am again reminded of how much I have to be thankful for in my life. Two men I love with all my heart and soul. And neither one was jealous of the other. How about that? Just goes to show you the character of both Bill and Pat. They love me unconditionally. And I return that love. I don't want to even think of my life without Pat now. Hopefully I will depart this life before Pat. But trust me, I will be reunited with both of these men in the Spirit World. And that is Heaven.


Random Thought On A Rainy September Sunday

  This morning I woke up to the usual rain and humidity we've been having here at Casa Tipton-Kelly for the last few months of summer. N...