Sunday, July 25, 2010

The Important Things in Life

The following statement is  from a letter that I received from a friend back in 2003.  I was sorting through some old papers this morning and I thought it would be worthwhile sharing with the readers of my blog.  This is exactly the way I feel and live my life.  My friend knew me well:

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there.  To serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be - a roommate, a neighbor, a teacher, a co-workers, a friend, a lover, or even a complete stranger - but when you lock eyes with them you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.

Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful and unfair at first.  But in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would never have fully realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.

Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat road to nowhere.  It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you become.  Even the bad experiences can be learned from.  In fact, they are sometimes the most important ones.

If someone loves you, give love back to them in whatever way you can, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.  

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have help you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.  

Make every day count.  Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again.  

Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and listen to what they have to say.

Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your heights high.  Hold your head up because you have every right to.  Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you.  

You can make anything you wish of your life.  Create your own life and then go out an live it with absolutely no regrets. And if you love someone tell them, for your never know what tomorrow may have in store.

Learn a lesson in life each day that you live.  Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.  Think about it.  Was it worth it?


  1. The picture on this posting is one I took of Rehoboth Bay at sunset at the end of Old Landing Road when I was housesitting for Barb and Evie in 2004. I love sunsets.

  2. Anonymous3:49 PM

    Wow. That's really great stuff =)


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